Update default packages to open source and preferred solutions

Do not work on until Big Bang 2.0

Update default packages to open source and preferred solutions. This includes:

• Disabling OPA Gatekeeper and enabling Kyverno by default
• Disabling Cluster Auditor and enabling Kyverno Reporter by default
• Disabling Elasticsearch-Kibana and enabling Loki by default
• Disabling Jaeger and enabling Tempo by default
• Disabling Twistlock and enabling NeuVector by default