Update Kiali to 1.40.1

NOTE: As of this issue creation this is the latest version for operator + instance in IB. If a newer version is available, jump to that one unless there are breaking issues requiring upgrading to previous version first.

New IB images available for operator and instance.

Make sure to pull in upstream chart updates with kpt.

Definition of Done:

• Image versions updated in chart/values.yaml
• Chart version bumped (match upstream chart, reset to bb.0 if the upstream version changes)
• Changelog entry added, note the update to image, any additional updates
• Clean install tested and validated working (see things to test)
• Upgrade tested and validated working (install newest tagged release, upgrade to your branch, then run through things to test)
• Pipeline passing on package MR
• Package MR merged and new release tagged
• BB MR opened, pipeline passing
• BB MR merged (no checkbox, BB MR should auto-close this)

Things to test:

• Validate all pods come up and healthy (operator + instance)
• Validate an install using dev SSO values, confirm that SSO logins work
• Validate that connections to Jaeger, Prometheus, and Grafana are working (navigate to workloads, choose one, verify inbound/outbound metrics and traces are populated - Kiali/Istio are good choices)
• Validate data populates on the graph