Update Renovate json to appropriately update dependencies

Update Renovate json to appropriately update dependencies within the wrapper chart. Also related to this issue

Currently the renovate misappropriately updates

• registry1.dso.mil/ironbank/opensource/grafana/alloy (source) from v1.3.1 to v1.4.3 instead of correctly v1.4.2
• registry1.dso.mil/ironbank/opensource/jimmidyson/configmap-reload from v0.12.0 to v0.14.0 instead of correctly v0.12.0

Reference this merge request created by renovate bot.

Desired outcomes were

• k8s-monitoring-v1 chart
• alloy helm chart tag 0.9.1
  • appVersion 1.4.2 here
  • configmap v0.12.0 here