Add istio-cni as conditional dependency for all istio-dependent HelmReleases

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Summary

When istioCNI.enabled=true, HelmReleases that depend on istiod must also depend on istio-cni to ensure correct installation order. The istioHelmRelease helper is renamed to istioHelmReleases and now returns full dependsOn entries, always including istiod and conditionally including istio-cni.

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Linked Issue

Closes #3190 (closed)

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