Resolve "Gitlab upgrade to 13.10.3"

Summary

1. upgrade Gitlab to chart version 4.10.3 app version 13.10.3
2. fix monitoring.enabled passthrough
3. Also, update synker image for gitlab-runner-helper. (this is unrelated to the Gitlab upgrade)

Closes #280 (closed)

scripts/package/synker.yaml

@@ -41,8 +41,8 @@ source:
     - registry.il2.dso.mil/platform-one/devops/pipeline-templates/pipeline-job/anchore:0.8.2
     - registry.il2.dso.mil/platform-one/devops/pipeline-templates/pipeline-job/test:gcc
     - registry.il2.dso.mil/platform-one/devops/pipeline-templates/pipeline-job/dependency-check611-sonar-scanner45-dotnet-31:021921
-    # Gitlab Runner images
-    - registry1.dso.mil/ironbank/gitlab/gitlab-runner/gitlab-runner:v13.2.2
-    - registry.dso.mil/platform-one/big-bang/apps/developer-tools/gitlab-runner/gitlab-runner-helper:ib-v13.2.2
+    # gitlab-runner-helper image: This image does not get captured from the release deployment
+    # the gitlab-runner-helper image only gets pulled when a pipeline runs. So it must be listed here
+    - registry1.dso.mil/ironbank/gitlab/gitlab-runner/gitlab-runner-helper:v13.9.0
     # Don't include until fortify is supported
     #- registry.il2.dso.mil/platform-one/devops/pipeline-templates/pipeline-job/dotnet-fortify:20.2.0